A little bit of astrology can be very helpful in certain situations. Here are ways to effectively lose your loved one based on his sign. Consider doing the opposite if you want to keep him or bring him back.

CAPRICORN (December 23rd – January 19th)
Make fun of their social inadequacy. They feel insecure in unfamiliar crowds, make sure you put emphasis on that and portray it as being very amusing. Capricorns can’t stand being teased. They are intolerant of tasteless jokes and criticism; make sure you go heavy on both elements. Women Capricorns are extremely attached to their families. Disrespect her mother, brother or any other family member, and you will be put on her “black list”. Waste money recklessly. Show jealousy. Capricorns don’t tolerate intrusion in their “secret garden”. If they see you as possessive, they will look for a way out. Drag them along every social happening, and very soon they will refuse to follow and leave for good.

AQUARIUS ( January 20th – February 18th)
You rarely break-up with an Aquarius yourself, usually he’s the one to take the initiative. Aquarius’ intuition will warn him long before you say anything. They know beforehand if something is not going to work. However if it’s a difficult case, here are some pointers: Be a true “couch potato”, chose watching a movie at home, over going out with Aquarius and his/her friends. Be frugal. Complain excessively, yet ignore their advice. Be mysterious and never share secrets. When Aquarius makes a mistake, act as if it’s unforgivable. Be old fashioned in every aspect of your life. Make fun of their desire to help others. Try to separate them from their old friends.

PISCES ( February 19th – March 20th)
Pisces are very sensitive and easily hurt. When in a group, always interrupt Pisces and make fun of them. Don’t allow them to express themselves. Lead every possible discussion. Welcome arguments and debates, yet don’t consider their point of view. Don’t compliment them; instead hint that they need to change their hair color or something of the sort. Return their gifts for a refund. Be intolerant to their mistakes and discredit their traditional points of view. Most of all, condemn their smallest mistakes. Very soon Pisces will become depressed and disoriented and they will seek for support in the arms of someone else.

ARIES (March 21st- April 19th)
If you want to lose your Aries, bring him to the same place you have initially met. If it was at a party, go to one and watch how quickly his enigmatic personality attracts attention. Chances are, if you allow him to meet someone he will set you free. If that approach doesn’t work, go to bed with a good book and push away your spouse’s romantic attempts. Also you should give him practical and boring presents. Become impatient and always disagree with everything.

TAURUS (April 20th- May 20th)
The longer your relationship is with a Taurus, the harder it is to end it. If you show Taurus that you prefer spending nights sitting at home and listening to Mozart, he might start looking for someone a little more dynamic. If you want to push your Taurus away, put emphasis on things that are important to you, while ignoring Taurus’s needs. Neglect your appearance. When talking about any subject with a Taurus, always try to change their opinion. Flirt with others. It might take time, but the Taurus will end up leaving.

GEMINI (May 21st- June 20th)
Be boring. Don’t socialize. Tell endless and winded stories, adding enormous amount of useless details. Bring “touchy” topics to the table. Gemini hate arguments, so make sure you start endless debates without giving him a chance to speak. Be predictable, always go to the same places, with the same people, wearing same things. The routine will drive them insane. Be impatient and explosive. In all situations find the negative. Gemini are optimists by nature, persuade them that if it’s bad today, tomorrow will get only worst. Find reasons to keep them at home every night, limit their freedom of movement. And they will end up breaking free from you forever.

CANCER (June 21st –July 22nd)
It is rather hard to get rid of a Cancer, as they tend to stick like instant glue. Always be in a bad mood, this will in return negatively affect Cancer’s mood. Be negligent and unkind. Nag a lot. Play a dominating role. Criticize his performance in bed. It is in his nature to doubt his capacities as it is, by criticizing him you will crash his ego altogether. Don’t listen to Cancer’s advice, don’t give them the attention and reassurance they need. Criticize everything and anything, they are especially susceptible to criticism. Don’t forget to speak poorly of your mother in law. Since Cancers tend to idealize their mother’s this might just be their last straw.

LEO (July 23rd- August 22nd)
Always talk about yourself. In any discussion bring the attention on yourself and speak without allowing your partner to slip in a single syllable. Contradict persistently. When they share their problems or attempt to express own point of view- yawn. Forget important dates (birthday, anniversaries, St.Valentine’s day etc.) Leos can’t stand this type of neglect. Don’t compliment or flatter them. Criticize their style, friends and apartment. Dress tastelessly and casually even to the biggest of events. Consciously, give them reasons to be jealous. Be a penny pincher. Always aim at their ego. Leo will soon look for someone that will make them feel like a king of the jungle that they are.

VIRGO (August 23rd – September 22nd)
Use a vulgar language. Neglect personal hygiene, don’t take daily showers. Dress poorly. Put your ashes in the coffee cup. Don’t create comfort at home. Always be late. Reject all constructive criticism. Make decisions without asking for Virgo’s opinion. Don’t take into consideration Virgo’s opinions even if they are volunteered. Share the most intimate details of your couple with others. Tell tasteless jokes. Gamble. Virgo isn’t very keen in ending relationships but if you apply yourself by using the proposed tactics, Virgo will leave without a doubt.

LIBRA (September 23rd – October 22nd)
It’s quiet easy to push a Libra away. Neglect your physical appearance. Set dates in noisy, public places. Speak about irrelevant things. Contradict Libra in everything. Nag about their ways in handling finances. Insist upon making all the financial decisions on their behalf and policing their expenses. Label them as irresponsible. Open their mail and snoop through their mobile phones. Intrusion into their personal life is one of the deadly sins according to Libras. Don’t make compliments. Be hysterical. Try to make them lose their temper. Criticize their cooking skills. Both men and women Libras, in general think highly of their culinary skills. As a last resort, if all else fails, next time you are having an argument, get physical. Libras won’t put up with the aggression.

SCORPIO (October 23rd- November 21st)
Scorpios have rather explosive tempers; therefore it might be a little dangerous to push them into a break up. Head-to-head collision might have a tragic outcome, therefore a subtle approach is recommended. Don’t show the due attachment to the Scorpio partner. This will make them insecure and unfulfilled. Don’t surround them with usual demonstration of affection. Always think about own interests and benefits. Complain about their lack of attention towards you. Point out their mistakes. In a conversation always take initiative into own hands, even if you have no clue what you are talking about it. Never compliment and encourage them. Make them jealous and then mock their reaction, all while continuing the same behavior that made them jealous. However you need to avoid heated arguments at all costs, otherwise the relationship might not be the only broken thing in your life.

SAGITARIUS (November 22nd- December 21st)
Command them in everything: what to wear, how to act and what to say. Criticize their friends, house and pets. Look for the negative in everything. As a general rule, Sagittarius is an optimist that believes that behind every door is a new opportunity – contradict this belief. To get rid of a woman Sagittarius: flirt with other women in front of her; ask her to change her profession and hair cut. Refuse to take trips, choosing to watch a movie instead. To push away a man Sagittarius, invite over individuals he dislikes, complain about impracticality of his plans, ideas and projects. Like an arrow, off he goes.

We tend to seek advice when dealing with a difficult situation or being unsure of own capacities and abilities. It allows us to see the situation from a different perspective and potentially let us improve aspects of the relationship that are bothering us. The type of counseling will vary depending on the type of a relationship you are involved in (ex: extramarital, legally bonded, casual partners, long distance etc). This site offers support for individuals from different walks of life who are facing various relationship problems. Long distance relationship advice, marriage relationship advice and reconciliation techniques are subjects that are explained in this section. Having had experience in couple’s counselling I will do my best to address issues frequently found in modern day relationships. I will combine data from different sources on relationship advice women struggle with. Human nature is my passion and I have been reading relationship advice books years before I pursued academic studies in the field. It is important for you not to panic and isolate yourself from the rest of the world. Solution to your problem is out there, you just don’t know it yet.

I highly recommend a book on the subject: ” It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken: The Smart Girl’s Break-Up Buddy ” reading this book really empowered me and gave me the strength to see things differently, it’s simply a must have.

Nothing is irreversible, even when we lose loved ones to death we will get a chance to make it right once reunited. If your separation was not fatal, there is something that can be done about it right now. By that I don’t mean rushing the events and making more mistakes by acting impulsively. What I mean is as of now you can alter the way you look at the situation and shift your personal perception from despair to courage. Courage to accept things you can’t change and change the ones you can.

Sounds pretty basic right? Yet many people struggle to understand this key notion. They waste their lives chasing things they can’t get and completely ignore the very aspects that bother them yet are under their command. What I’m getting to is for example, while you can’t undo infidelity that took a toll on your relationship you can change the role you’re playing in this situation. If you can’t truly forget and forgive your spouse for doing that, you could leave. And if you leave, you must understand that it is a decision and not an obligation. You walk away not to feel trapped. Or you remain “trapped“ not to walk away. We always have a choice, always! Even if someone leaves us for example, we still have a choice to pursue the person and try and reconcile or move on. We ultimately chose what we do. In this section we will discuss choices we face when dealing with potentially life changing situations. If you feel like this section can use more information please let me know and I will update the website with new relationship advice based on your request.

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Relationship advice book review

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One that particularly struck me, was
The Complete Idiot’s Guide(R) to a Healthy Relationship (2nd Edition).

While I am not very fond of the title, this book did chew up all the complex aspects of a happy marriage quite well. All my previous reads, where based on a rather fancy language and complicated notions, and provided little help. While this book is straight forward, without any detours or vague explanations. When we pick a book, to help us deal with a specific issue, we are looking for answers. Not more questions and unfortunately this is what many of those books do. Of course questioning is inevitable, when it comes to personal growth or relationship healing. However this type of questioning needs to come from within, and not created by some fancy –lingo induced books. I stress this idea, because I remember being discouraged myself, after attempting to read through the very first relationship advice book, I have ordered online. It made me feel like I was being patronized by the author, for not understanding the very concepts, treated in the book.
This is why , from now on I search for simplified and direct approach books. Those types of books give us just enough information to dig in deeper into ourselves and help us deal with the problematic issues. As well, it gives very effective techniques, in exploring the partner`s concerns and issues, without putting any pressure on them.
If you are looking for a good book, you can trust J,Kuriansky, as she definitely has what it takes to help people deal with some pretty sensitive and important issues.

It's possible!

This website was created as a sanctuary for all the souls out there, going through a break up, anticipating one or dealing with a cheating spouse.  No one is safe against a rupture of a union or infidelity, I have been down this road myself. I decided to create a virtual space where individuals from all walks of life can find some support. It is important to surround ourselves with tools that will help us understand and ease our pain. A break up does not imply that one`s love is gone it is just a rough turn on this road of relationship. It is possible to salvage a relationship even if you were not the one to make the call for the break up there are techniques to undo the “ex” partner factor, and effectively reconcile. I too once felt helpless and desperate when facing a break up until I came across a book that  changed my life.

It is called “The magic of making up”  and it is absolutely amazing. I never believed that we can influence one`s behavior when it came to things like break ups, but this book proved me wrong. It was written by a man that gives us interesting perspectives on male psychology, but it is addressed to readers of both sexes. The most important thing to understand when it comes to break ups is that your attitude following the split will determine whether you will get back together or not. Only your behavior can make your ex partner reconsider his decision, if you do not undertake wise steps like described by the author, your ex will remain history.

First thing to do is to pull yourself together and realize that it is not really over, until you give up. However do not chase your ex, and beg him to take you back as it will only aggravate the situation. You have to act wisely, and learn no control your emotions or at least pretend to do so. I was surprised myself, how easily I managed to get my man back. It did not happen overnight, but all the hard work paid off. Today we are happier than ever and I came to understand that the break up took place, so I could learn some things about myself and the relationship through that book. Everything happens for a reason and today I can say with confidence, that we broke up ,so we could get back together for good.

Please share your success stories with us, I am working on a “testimonials” part of the website and should put it up in the near future. There we will publish your messages on a monthly basis to show others that there is hope. Tell us what the book did for you and do not worry about confidentiality. We will post no real names or photos.

Courage dear, as THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

Love is a very powerful element on this planet. Humans being will fight, kill, and even die in the name of love. Many large scale tragedies took place throughout history due to a deviant kind of love, that of power and the money. It all comes down to love. Optimists love to hope, pessimists love to doubt, workaholics love to work and the lovers just love each other. Love and hate are not antonyms (opposites), indifference is the contrast of love, not hate. Therefore some people unfortunately live their lives, loving to hate. Love is everywhere and at the end of the day this is the salvation of the human nature, the love for each other.

Heart breaks can inflict more pain than any physical injury. Our heart bleeds as we feel abandoned and neglected. We feel literally torn apart by the separation as if a piece of our heart was ripped out. The other piece of the puzzle, the one that will now call himself “Ex”. This website will provide you with breakup support and information on how to stop a breakup.

Heart aches are inevitable for personal growth, and no one is protected against them. Unless you wear a heart “bulletproof” vest and refuse access to anyone, you are not invincible. But life is all about taking chances and it would be a major loss to prevent yourself from experiencing love out of fear of having your heart broken. Often we can’t decide when to breakup. It hits us like a lightening and we have to face it with strength and wisdom. There are ways to fix the broken pieces, if it is done carefully and wisely, for this you will find breakup advice throughout this website. Our emotions can aggravate the situation, therefore you will have to approach the matter with rationality and separate your feelings from the reality. It is not done in a snap of a finger, and I had to read many breakup books before I learned to dissociate my heart from my mind; my thoughts from my feelings. At the end, I achieved my ultimate goal, and returned the love I once believed lost forever. After all, It is not really over, until you say it s over! The book is called the Magic of Making up and you must read it if you want the best advice on break ups.

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There is belief that states that rather than picking up broken glass pieces of the relationship and getting cut on the way – it is sometimes better letting go altogether. Time heals all, but obviously it is hard to believe if you are hurting right here and right now. Minutes seem like hours, hours seem like days and you feel like you will physically die in a week, without that person. The truth is that no one dies of a broken heart itself; it is the consequent behaviours that can aggravate the situation. I have been where you are now and I thought that I wasn’t going to make it through on my own. I felt like there was going to be no other like the one I lost. Today, I m still here, and I am happier than ever. You can do it too.

Some things to remember:

• Keep busy, keep moving, old memories are gone, create new ones to push them out
• Hide the old picture and souvenirs (like hiding the ashtrays when quitting smoking)
• Consider starting a new relationship sometimes it’s the best way to get over the current heart ache
• Get this book: It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken: The Smart Girl’s Break-Up Buddy

How long does it take to get over an ex?

There is no predetermined answer to that question. Each person is different, but the general belief that the peak of the feeling with subside after 2 months and it will stop “hurting” after 8 months to 1 year. Unfortunately the time it takes you to come to peace with the break up will be determined by many factors. The length of the relationship, personality traits, the intensity of the feelings, the circumstances of the break up etc. will influence the time it will take for healing a broken heart. You can accelerate that time, by coping with the break up and not emotionally fighting it. There are ways to make moving on easier than it normally is. Getting over your ex is not obvious, it takes time, but it’s doable.

This website will show you ways of how to mend a broken heart and get back to your normal self. We all go through a break up at some point in our lives. Unfortunately it is a normal process of our personal growth. We break hearts and sometimes also place ours in the negligent hands of others. When allowing ourselves to fall in love, we take that risk of having our heart broken, love is a bargain. Fortunately, heartbreaks are not lethal, even though they do make us feel as if Apocalypse has arrived. This whole site is dedicated to women and men across the globe, looking for a way how to get over a break up. It is about showing you relationship struggles under different light , and helping you uncover solutions to make it through.

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When we are truly in love the feelings takes over us. It is like being swept by a huge wave. First thing on our mind when we wake up is the thought of the loved one, or his/her face sharing your pillow. This person becomes the ultimate reason behind everything we do. It is the main focus of our life. Friends are often neglected and other interests of our life become secondary. It is like two hearts are beating within, yours and the partner’s. Long term plans helps us lay out the foundation for a lifelong companionship. And you cannot picture your life without that chosen one.

Sometimes, we find ourselves with a feeling of fear inside. Fear to lose that special someone to someone else, fear of them walking out of our life forever. Fear of being abandoned. At times, these fears have no justification and it is just our “defense” mechanism that does not let us fall head over heels and always stay on guard. But in some cases, it’s our gut feeling telling us something is wrong. There is a big difference between “spousal paranoia” and intuition or fact gathering. This is why you will have to evaluate the situation and determine whether there really are signs of a cheating boyfriend. In this section of the website we will talk about things that might indicate on infidelity and help you answer the ultimate question “Is my husband cheating?”

When dealing with a potentially cheating spouse, many women take desperate measures to find ways, how to catch a cheating husband. Generally, it is much easier to catch cheating boyfriend, than a legal spouse. Marriage’s legal status would be jeopardized by adultery, so married men often go out of their way to dissimulate the affair. While civil union partners can be less careful and act recklessly when it comes to hiding unfaithfulness. If you feel like your husband or boyfriend is cheating, this website will provide you with free coaching and tips on how to verify whether your intuition is right for example you can run a thorough reverse phone number check on a number using a powerful service like: phone-number-lookup-411.com. Knowledge is power, once you discover whether your partner is being faithful or now, the decision is yours. But you have the right to know all the facts, before you decide to forgive or forget.

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Socrates once said:

“The hottest love, has the coldest end”

And he was right. This was the truth centuries ago, and it’s still true to this day. Love can take us through a rainbow of emotions in one little moment. From the breathtaking height of passion, we can fall right into icy waters of rejection, within seconds. Love has no limits, no boundaries and knows no reason. It’s like a bull that rages inside and that very same toreador that will hurt us is the one that we need the most. Love can be a poison, but it is also the greatest remedy. Love is what you make it. A breakup does not mean your love is rejected; sometimes a breakup is just a storm in the ocean. Your couple is the ship, and your actions during the storm will determine if the ship sinks or holds through. Break up is like love, it s what you make of it. There are ways how to get back with your boyfriend, you just have to approach the breakup as a challenge, not a punishment. The ways to go about it will depend on the nature of the breakup. For example if you were caught cheating, the reconciliation approach will be different, than if you were someone looking how to get your boyfriend back if he was the one to cheat.

This section of the website is dedicated to help you find a solution how to get your boyfriend back if he was the one to leave you. Those that need help with getting back with the partner they themselves left will find relevant info in another section of the website. I decided to create this website to help all the women across the globe -save their face or/and relationships. If it was truly meant to be, this website will show you how to get your ex boyfriend back for good. In order to do so, getting back is not enough. You will have to work on the issues that caused the separation in the first place, in order to future break ups. In order to get the most out of this challenge called break up, finding how to get your ex boyfriend back alone, is not enough. You will have to analyze your relationship and draw conclusions, so you don’t make same mistakes twice. There are also very helpful books on the subject such as the Magic of Making Up, which can be described a step-by-step guide on how to take a proactive step towards getting him back.

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Sky is the limit

If your ex partner is one of those individuals that is afraid of commitments, this article is for you.
It is mostly men that have inhibitions when it comes to commitment, something in their nature makes them want to run wild, like a desert horse. Some never resolve the issue and spend their lives running away from those that had an ability and desire to tame them. Others, with the help of a partner or a psychologists  come to peace with this phobia of being “tied forever”. It is a long process of self-understanding and healing of long term fears. If your mate is scared of commitments, don’t take it personally. They are so with every partner that crossed their path.

You will be no different and your capacity to change the situation , will depend on their desire to be helped and help themselves. If you are ready to assist them on this journey that might or might not help them change gear up with patience and forgiveness. If  your relationship ended because of their hesitation to commit to exclusivity and you are now looking for a way how to get him back after a break up , you might want read a book specifically on the subject “The Magic of Making Up“  It will provide you with useful insight on how to achieve your goal . While this book will not teach you how to aid your partner to commit without fear, it will show you ways how to get him back for now.
Advice is a precious tool, when it comes to solving problems. Because we learn throughout our lives, advice provides us with that ability to see the situation under different light. Everybody could use some coaching when it comes to finding how to get him / her back from a split. Even if you want to get him back in a short time, you can’t rush the events. Don’t take any premature actions or frantic steps. Getting his/her name tattooed on your forehead is not a wise way how to get him back in your life. Or faking a pregnancy for example, is not the smartest idea when it comes to finding a solution on how to get him back. Remember, any lie will be uncovered and it will make matters much worse. I hope this website helps you find a way how to get him back for good.

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“If you can`t change your fate, change your attitude”
- A. Tan

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