SubscribeI have heard hundreds of stories about how cheating mates were confronted in regards to their affairs and the ways used to catch cheating boyfriends and girlfriend. Of course you can organize a stakeout by the house of your suspected partner (if not living together) and observe all the visits and the outings of the subject. While it might seem a little “stalker style” this is actually what a friend of mine did to confront his high school sweet heart that was having an affair with a co-worker. The problem was, that such an approach was too drastic and shifted all attention from the initial goal to the method that was being used in order to accomplish that goal. Basically, my poor friend was qualified as a maniac and all of the sudden this became a justification for her behavior. Curiously enough, once his ex-girlfriend actually moved in with the co-worker he left her for yet another “object of the attraction”. And the vicious circle goes on. The rule of thumb, Karma. Nevertheless in this article we will talk of different ways to catch your boyfriend cheating and how to always be one step ahead of the game. The affair may eventually lead to a break up that is why you have to be prepared to face a separation.
The tool I used to catch my boyfriend cheating was a reverse telephone look up. He was inseparable from his Iphone and would hide it whenever taking the shower, it was suspicious because he would start mumbling whenever I asked him what was he doing with his phone. I searched through his cell phone invoice and ordered the phone number report from www.Phone-Number-Lookup-411.com. I submitted several numbers to the search and the results confirmed my worries. My boyfriend was having an affair with another woman. I got her address and one night when my boyfriend left angry over an initiated argument, I drove to her house. His car was in her driveway, I left a note on his windshield, saying these words: “It s ok, Really, Just stay where you are. I want out”. On a side note if you want to can also spy about his computer activities (if he’s flirting on the net) using a cool gadget called “Supreme logger” it records and plays back everything he does on a computer.
I don’t know where I found the strength in me to write these words instead of just telling him how I felt. Which was lonely, abandoned and betrayed. I followed my instincts not to show him my despair, and it worked marvels! In fact, years later I read this interesting book (it’s called Magic of Making Up I highly recommend it to everyone) that actually explained that the first step to turning the other person back around is to accept the break up. So by leaving this note, it’s as if I anticipated the break up and already made peace with it. It drove my boyfriend crazy next morning he was at my door with a huge bouquet of roses and a guilty face on. I did not forgive him so fast, I made him struggle to get me back. Many tips are available on the web how to catch a cheating boyfriend, and you will see people have a lot of experiences to share. But simply to catch cheating boyfriend is not enough, you have to determine what are you going to do about it. Take it or leave it, but you`d better believe it.
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